Janet Linly is the CEO of Marge Carson Global.
In a world that often rewards speed and convenience, settling for mediocrity has become second nature. Whether it’s in relationships, at work or in the things we consume, the pressure to “just get by” can feel easier than standing up for something better. But choosing quality isn’t about luxury—it’s about self-respect. When we raise our standards, we shape a life rooted in fulfillment, integrity and lasting value.
The Psychology Of Quality
Our desire for quality is not simply a preference—I believe it’s wired into us. From early survival instincts to modern life, we’re driven to seek environments, products and relationships that feel safe, rewarding and enriching. This drive, when honored, can lead us toward experiences that nourish our well-being and affirm our worth.
Choosing quality isn’t about being selective for its own sake. It’s about aligning with what reinforces our identity and values. When I prioritize well-made things and relationships grounded in mutual care, I feel more connected to my own purpose. Quality, in this sense, becomes a form of personal integrity.
Why Settling Comes At A Cost
At first glance, settling may seem harmless—or even practical. But over time, it can chip away at our energy, self-esteem and joy. That underpaid job, that one-sided friendship or that cheaply made product might save time or money today, but what does it cost you emotionally, mentally or spiritually in the long run?
Settling often creates a quiet resignation within us. We begin to expect less from the world and from ourselves. Choosing excellence is not about perfection; it’s about refusing to accept circumstances that undermine your potential. When we raise our expectations, we make room for opportunities that challenge and elevate us.
Intentional Living As A Lifestyle
Intentional living is the art of curation—of knowing what belongs in your life and what doesn’t. It means making choices with clarity and purpose, whether you’re choosing what to eat, who to spend time with or how to build your business. It’s less about having more and more about investing in what matters most.
From design to daily routines, I’ve found that fewer, higher-quality experiences lead to more meaningful results. This philosophy is echoed by some of the most respected brands in the world: Think about Apple, Hermes and Rolls-Royce—they thrive not by flooding the market with endless products but by offering a few exceptional items that resonate deeply with consumers. This commitment to quality, not quantity, has been key to their success. In our own lives, we can apply the same mindset—being selective not out of scarcity but out of self-worth.
The Strength In Choosing Excellence
Excellence is a choice—and often, a courageous one. It requires us to trust ourselves, advocate for our needs and walk away from what no longer aligns with our growth. For me, that meant turning down opportunities that didn’t honor my values and moving on from connections that drained my energy. Every time I’ve chosen the harder, higher path, it’s rewarded me with greater peace, self-trust and progress.
Curating a high-quality life is not about perfection—it’s about power. The power to shape your reality in alignment with your highest self. When you choose quality consistently, you can create a life that reflects who you are and where you’re going—not just where you’ve been.
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